Fear of missing out
Sometimes great things happen. House parties turn out to be far more awesome that you’d hoped they’d be, that cabaret show ends up being an absolute belter, and a few quiet drinks with friends somehow...
View ArticleDon’t you ever get jealous?
When faced with the concept of consensual non-monogamy for the very first time, many people struggle to understand it. If all you’ve known is monogamy, talking to someone who says they don’t abide by...
View ArticleWhat do I want? What do I need?
As with many topics relating to non-monogamous relationships, this one also applies to monogamous ones. It’s just that complicated relationship structures usually involve much more… of everything. More...
View ArticleDeciphering the panic
I have been thinking about polyamory for a while now. However, I don’t mean in the context of my blog posts on the subject. I have been thinking of polyamory and what it means to me personally. For...
View ArticleOn monogamy…
There are many things we are brought up to believe in by society and our well-meaning parents. When we are young, a life path spreads out before us – school, university, career, marriage, children –...
View ArticleI’ve been missing you
You might think that polyamory is amazing all of the time but, sadly, you’d be wrong. As with other types of relationship, there are bad times as well as good. As far as I’m concerned, the good times...
View ArticleThe Beast With Two… Everythings!
Guest Blogger #16 – Clarabelle describes herself as a “daft teenager trapped in a 30-something’s body”. She sells vintage clothing, adores charity shops and doesn’t shave her ‘pits. She knows about a...
View ArticleRelationships, bad stuff and blame
In every relationship, much as we hate to admit it, there is bad stuff as well as good. There are times when you are feeling so sad you want to cry, so angry you want to scream, and so frustrated that...
View ArticleRubyyy Jones: Waiting…
Hello darlings! Hoping this little blog post finds you feeling absolutely joyous and gentle at the same time. So much has been going on in the world, my world and, therefore no doubt, your world. I...
View ArticleOn open relationships…
If you say that you are in an open relationship, the chances of being misunderstood are quite high. Some folk think you’re cheating, are being forced into doing something you don’t want by a more...
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